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Stop Suffering for Success: Embrace Effortless Greatness - Unapologetic-Woman

Stop Suffering for Success: Embrace Effortless Greatness

Sister,
are you holding on to a belief of pain for gain?

 

Are you refusing to let go of the idea
that there’s a price to pay
for your most deliciously delectable mouth sighingly
hmmmmmmmm
life?

 

I’ll tell ya honey
habits of thought are stubborn little bastards.
They have a way of fooling us into thinking we’ve dealt with them once and for all
only to pop up inconspicuously in an unattended life zone.

 

And let’s just be honest here
society is most certainly still holding on to the need for a good hero story
as if
we haven’t learned by now that a heroine needs some form of epic proportional shit to hit the fan for her to even have a purpose.

 

We take every desire born through life experience
and we figure out a way to make it hard, painful, unattractive to obtain
so that our sisters will admire our resilience
and they will be so happy for us to have made it to the other side
because now we DESERVE whatever we’ve achieved
even though we’re too damned exhausted to relish the goodness of what we wanted
AND
we only allow ourselves to have a sliver of possibility
because
damn girl,
if it hurt this much for the crumbs
how can we possibly handle the price for the full cake???

 

Sweetheart,
it’s just a habit of thought
created through generations of women
who lived in times we have no real way of understanding
as we can only paint their pictures through the latest gossip,
and rather than replicating insanity again and again
I propose you take some time
to connect to your Source
to remember what you are
to remember who you are
and to ask for clarity around the creative process.

 

I put it to you
that you’ll be gob-smacked to know
there’s no price to pay
only an investment to make
and that investment
is your focus and commitment to joy.

 

You get to not only have whatever you desire
you also get to have it in a way that feels uniquely fabulous to you!

 

That’s right:
if it doesn’t make your body sing in joy
you’re still holding on to an idea that smells like old socks
and it’s time to do some laundry!

 

So where are you not allowing a desire
because you have a story that there’s something hard, sucky, downright ‘ugh kill me now’
that has to be appeased for you to receive your prize?

 

It can be anything
from your best body
to your dream clients
to your heart-melting romance
to your joy-filled empire
to your ovary-revving mode of transportation…

 

Because as long as you have this belief in one area of life
you hold the belief
and she will influence EVERY area of life.

 

Find the thought
and replace her with an upgraded understanding
of investment of focus
and commitment to joy
with whatever else you want to add for your personal preference:

 

for me
it has to be flow
it has to be funnigans
it has to be artistic
and it has to be shenanigans inducing.

 

You get to decide Hon,
you’re truly THAT powerful
and life is too short
for us to continue suffering for pleasure.

 

Express yourself without words.

 

Elle xo

 

PS: Darling, it’s time to break free from the outdated belief that pain is necessary for gain. If you’re ready to embrace a life filled with joy, ease, and your deepest desires, I invite you to book a private consultation with me. Let’s explore how you can shift your focus, elevate your mindset, and create a life that feels uniquely fabulous to you. Life is too short to continue suffering for pleasure. Book your consultation today and start living your legacy: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic. Book your consultation here.

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