Sister,
\nare you holding on to a belief of pain for gain?<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Are you refusing to let go of the idea
\nthat there’s a price to pay
\nfor your most deliciously delectable mouth sighingly
\nhmmmmmmmm
\nlife?<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

I’ll tell ya honey
\nhabits of thought are stubborn little bastards.
\nThey have a way of fooling us into thinking we’ve dealt with them once and for all
\nonly to pop up inconspicuously in an unattended life zone.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

And let’s just be honest here
\nsociety is most certainly still holding on to the need for a good hero story
\nas if
\nwe haven’t learned by now that a heroine needs some form of epic proportional shit to hit the fan for her to even have a purpose.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

We take every desire born through life experience
\nand we figure out a way to make it hard, painful, unattractive to obtain
\nso that our sisters will admire our resilience
\nand they will be so happy for us to have made it to the other side
\nbecause now we DESERVE whatever we’ve achieved
\neven though we’re too damned exhausted to relish the goodness of what we wanted
\nAND
\nwe only allow ourselves to have a sliver of possibility
\nbecause
\ndamn girl,
\nif it hurt this much for the crumbs
\nhow can we possibly handle the price for the full cake???<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Sweetheart,
\nit’s just a habit of thought
\ncreated through generations of women
\nwho lived in times we have no real way of understanding
\nas we can only paint their pictures through the latest gossip,
\nand rather than replicating insanity again and again
\nI propose you take some time
\nto connect to your Source
\nto remember what you are
\nto remember who you are
\nand to ask for clarity around the creative process.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

I put it to you
\nthat you’ll be gob-smacked to know
\nthere’s no price to pay
\nonly an investment to make
\nand that investment
\nis your focus and commitment to joy.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

You get to not only have whatever you desire
\nyou also get to have it in a way that feels uniquely fabulous to you!<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

That’s right:
\nif it doesn’t make your body sing in joy
\nyou’re still holding on to an idea that smells like old socks
\nand it’s time to do some laundry!<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

So where are you not allowing a desire
\nbecause you have a story that there’s something hard, sucky, downright ‘ugh kill me now’
\nthat has to be appeased for you to receive your prize?<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

It can be anything
\nfrom your best body
\nto your dream clients
\nto your heart-melting romance
\nto your joy-filled empire
\nto your ovary-revving mode of transportation…<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Because as long as you have this belief in one area of life
\nyou hold the belief
\nand she will influence EVERY area of life.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Find the thought
\nand replace her with an upgraded understanding
\nof investment of focus
\nand commitment to joy
\nwith whatever else you want to add for your personal preference:<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

for me
\nit has to be flow
\nit has to be funnigans
\nit has to be artistic
\nand it has to be shenanigans inducing.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

You get to decide Hon,
\nyou’re truly THAT powerful
\nand life is too short
\nfor us to continue suffering for pleasure.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Express yourself without words.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Elle xo<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

PS: Darling, it’s time to break free from the outdated belief that pain is necessary for gain. If you’re ready to embrace a life filled with joy, ease, and your deepest desires, I invite you to book a private consultation with me. Let’s explore how you can shift your focus, elevate your mindset, and create a life that feels uniquely fabulous to you. Life is too short to continue suffering for pleasure. Book your consultation today and start living your legacy: unleashed, unlimited, unapologetic. Book your consultation here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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